AOH :: INTRLUDE.TXT|
A compendium of suggestions to enhance your sex life - written for women
INSTRUCTIONS OF VARIOUS THINGS FOR HIM
Spend a lot of time warming up your lady to give her the best orgasm she
has ever had! Kiss the back of her neck, her hairline, her ears. Kiss
her eyes, her throat, her lips.
Spend several minutes just kissing each other. Vary the kisses --light
ones, then deep passionate ones. Run your tongue over her lips and teeth,
suck her lower lip. Then move down to her breasts, kissing, sucking,
nibbling, caressing them. Roll one nipple in your fingers and flick the
other with your tongue, sucking it, then flicking it. Spend several min-
utes here. Then move down her body to her stomach, kissing, touching, caress-
ing. Then move to her inner thighs.
Run your tongue close to her pussy, but avoid touching it directly for
several minutes. Raise her bottom up and run your tongue over her buttocks,
along her crack. Go back to her inner thighs and slowly approach her pussy.
When she is moaning with desire, massage her labia with your fingers gently.
Now spread the labia to expose her clit.
Flick it with your tongue the way she likes best. When she comes, which
should be quickly and intensely after this kind of foreplay, let her rest for
several moments while you caress and kiss her inner thighs. Then proceed to
your own pleasure . . .
Walk with your lady on a moonlight night. The beach is the best, with
waves crashing on the sand, but a walk along a lake or in the park will
do nicely. Hold hands and talk about the future. Kiss her gently and tell
her how beautiful she looks in the moonlight. This is a time for tender-
ness and gentle touches. When you get home, make gentle sweet love with her.
Your lady wants to play today, so take her to the best of playgrounds, an
amusement park! Ride the roller coaster and tilt-a-whirl. Chase each other
in bumper cars and view the playground from the top of the ferris wheel. Buy
her cotton candy and popcorn and win a teddy bear for her at one of the
booths. You're teenagers again, holding hands and stealing kisses!
Your lady needs a little romance in her life, so give it to her with a
touch of class. Take her to a restaurant which has strolling violinists, if
possible, and arrange for them to play "your" song at your table. If
violinists aren't available, try for a restaurant with a band or a pianist and
arrange for them to play your favorite tunes.
Dance with her and tell her how much you love her. Continue the romantic
mood of the evening when you get home with slow, sweet lovemaking.
Buy a Lone Ranger mask from a costume shop and dress up like a cowboy.
Then seduce your lady while she is reading or watching TV. Whatever you do,
don't take off your mask.
Ask your lady to take a warm bath and then wait for you on the sofa. Have
a drink ready for her when she emerges from her bath. Tell her to lie quietly
and fantasize while you prepare dinner.
After a few minutes go into her and blindfold her. Lift her knees to her
head so that her pussy is accessible.
Ask her to hold her legs in this position. Now, take a large cucumber
which you've peeled and indented with ridges and warmed slightly in the oven.
Insert it slowly in her pussy. Then, slowly, remove it to its tip and
begin thrusting it gently while your own cock lies against her thighs. Tell
her to fantasize about two men making love to her. Continue to stroke her with
the cucumber, timing your strokes with her mounting passion.
If you're not the jealous type, hire a male stripper to dance for your
lady in private (with you there, of course!).
Plan a dinner at home and arrange for the dancer to act as the waiter for
dinner. Ask him to dress in a tuxedo and, at the end of dinner, to strip
and dance to provocative music. Photograph or Videotape the event for future
How far he strips, and how long he stays, is up to you.
When you are making love with your lady, let her smell -- then taste --
her own love juices. When she is really hot, dip your finger in her
pussy, then lift it to her nose while you are kissing her. Between kisses,
lick your finger, then put your finger into her mouth, slowly. Repeat this
several times, then enter her for a roaring climax.
Spread large towels on your bed. Take a bottle of body oil and lavish
oil over your lady's body till it glistens.
Don't miss an inch, as you move your slippery hands over her body, front
and back. Then lie on top of her and move your body across her glistening
By the time you finish you'll both be covered with love oil.
Arrange for a hot air balloon ride with your lady (Hot air balloons may
be rented in most major cities for 100 dollars or less for an hour's ride).
Pack a picnic of finger foods and wine or champagne. Feed each other as
you soar above the countryside. Kiss and touch to your heart's content, but
save the grand finale until you land. Too much motion might upset the balloon
basket . . . not to mention the balloon pilot!
Romance is the spice of life. Choose this Interlude when you're giving
your lady a very special present, such as diamond jewelry. Arrange a
candlelit dinner at home or at a very intimate restaurant. Present her with a
box of chocolate truffles in which you've placed the jewelry in lieu of one of
the chocolates. Watch her joy when she opens the box.
While your lady's away, fill her bedroom with flowers. Order several
dozens of bouquets of all kinds from a florist, if you can afford it, or buy
the flowers and arrange the vases yourself. When she comes home, be in the
bedroom, lying naked on the bed with a rose in your teeth. She'll take it
The next time you make love to your lady, spend some time on her inner
thighs . . . you can tease her to great heights this way. Kiss, lick and
nibble each of her inner thighs, approaching but not touching her pubic
area. Move in closer, kissing and tonguing the entire area, yet still
avoiding her vagina and clitoris.
Caress her inner thighs lightly. Intersperse the kissing and tonguing
with gentle bites. Finally, turn your full attention to the center of her sex
and bring her to a climax.
Brushing your lady's hair can be a sensuous experience for both of you.
Have her sit comfortably at your feet, her back to you. Start by massaging
her scalp with your fingertips. Then brush her hair with 100 slow, gentle
strokes. When you have finished, massage her temples with a firm circular
motion, then move around her hairline to the base of her shoulders to give her
a firm shoulder massage.
Kiss the back of her neck at her hairline. Let your kisses and her
responses guide you through the rest of this interlude.
Your lady is tired tonight. Express your love by holding--just holding--
her in your arms as you both drift off to sleep. When morning comes, wake
her with light kisses and early morning cuddling. Kiss her face, neck, and
breasts. Make your way slowly down her body and bring her to full awakening
with cunnilingus. Take nothing for yourself, even if she offers to reciprocate.
This is a gift to her. While she is lying in the afterglow of your love,
serve her favorite morning beverage in bed.
Take your lady dancin' tonight . . . at home. Put some slow, sexy dance
music on the stereo, and ask her to dance with you. As you dance, kiss and
touch her. Let her feel your growing desire. Slowly strip off her clothes,
piece by piece, and let her do the same to you. Continue dancing in the nude.
When you're ready, enter her and continue dancing. (Pick her up and let her
wrap both legs around your back, or bend her over and enter her from behind,
matching your movements to the music.)
She may not be interested in active sex tonight, but watching is another
Ask her to undress and wait for you in bed. Then, undress and sit in a
chair near the bed or on the corner of the bed. Arouse yourself by fantasizing
or looking at erotic photos. Pretend you are alone as you stroke yourself
to a climax.
Give your lady a new sensation. When you're ready for intercourse, grasp
her ankles in each hand and raise her knees as close to her head as they can
comfortably go. (Be careful not to hurt her!) Take her in this position.
When your lady is especially tired and tense, treat her to a foot massage.
Prepare her favorite drink and tell her to remove her shoes and relax.
Prepare a large basin of hot water. Add fragrant bath salts and place her feet
in the basin to soak for a few minutes. Get a towel, floor pillow, bar of soap,
and body lotion. Seat yourself on the floor pillow at her feet, and wash each
foot slowly, lovingly, massaging it gently. Dry her feet and put the basin
of water aside.
Now take one of her feet in your lap and rub the lotion into it. Massage
the instep and sole of the foot deeply. Take her ankle in both your hands and
massage it in small, circular motions.
Attend to each toe individually. Kiss each foot as you finish and/or suck
her toes! Repeat this procedure with the other foot.
When you have finished, let your lady take the lead. She may be relaxed
enough to fall asleep--or aroused enough to take on a different kind of
Although she seems hardly interested, your lady really wants to be seduced--
to be kissed, teased, aroused, and finally, taken.
Start your seduction with music. Put something sexy on the stereo, maybe
some blues or jazz. Then begin to touch her hair, ears, neck, shoulders,
wherever she happens to be, whatever she happens to be doing. If she doesn't
respond at first, make your actions speak a little louder. Kiss her nipples
through her shirt, or lift or unbutton it to kiss them directly.
Run your hand up her leg to her panties, and run your fingertip just
inside the panty leg. By now, you should have her complete attention.
Invite your lady to meet you at your office one night when you are working
late. When she arrives, lock the door if you have a private office; if not,
make sure everyone, including the cleaning people, are gone. (The later
the hour, the better, for this Interlude!) Greet your lady with a long, deep
kiss to set the mood, then expand your kisses to her neck, ears, and hair.
Unbutton her blouse and bra. Ignore her protests. Kiss her breasts and nipples
until she is fully aroused. (Stay as fully clothed as possible as you may have
to make a quick recovery!) Bend her over the desk so that her elbows are
resting on the desktop. Kneel behind her; lift her skirt and ease her panties
to her ankles.
Touch her with your tongue and fingers until she is ready for you. Then
unzip your pants and enter her from behind. The danger of discovery only
increases the thrill.
Afterwards, take her out to dinner and talk about the experience. It
might inspire you to another Interlude when you get home!
Light a fire in the fireplace or light several candles, and turn out the
lights. Warm some scented body oil and spread a blanket on the floor. Now,
undress your lady and yourself, and have her lie on her stomach on the blanket.
You are going to give her a sensuous massage.
Start at her neck and scalp, massaging lightly with your fingertips.
Using the scented oil, massage each arm with gentle kneading, then long firm
strokes. Massage each hand and finger, then her shoulders, back, and buttocks,
with firm kneading. Linger with a gentle touch on the curve of her buttocks
and inner thighs, then massage each leg and foot. Pay special attention to
Turn her over and give her face a light fingertip massage. Continue down
her neck to her breasts. Linger at the nipples, rolling them lightly between
your fingertips. Continue to her stomach and pubic area, lightly stroking the
vulva. Then massage each leg and foot again. Now run your fingertips very
lightly over her entire body, and return to the pubic area.
You can give all your attention now to teasing and arousing her. Give
her as many orgasms as she wants, with your hand or tongue. Then take her
however you wish.
The next time you are out of town, call your lady near bedtime. Ask her
if she is undressed and ready for bed. If not, ask her to undress and bring
her vibrator to bed with her. Tell her you want to make love. Ask her to
touch herself while you're talking. Ask her to tell you exactly what she is
doing and how it feels. Tell her specific things you would like her to do.
Encourage her with love talk. Ask her to turn on the vibrator and use
it for her pleasure. Increase your own stroking as she nears a climax.
Share your love sounds as you come together miles apart.
When you know your lady is at home, call her on the phone and tell her you
are coming home early. Suggest that she take a leisurely bath and wait for
you in bed. Tell her exactly what you plan to do to her when you arrive.
Now, hurry home!
Create a love diary for your lady. Buy a notebook or one of those bound
books with blank pages. Then for a week, a month, or longer, write in it all
your erotic thoughts about her, your fantasies, your feelings about an
experience you've shared. This is the place to reveal the things about her
that really turn you on, the things you'd like to do or say but cannot bring
yourself to voice. Write in the book daily or as often as possible. Don't
worry about style or grammar or spelling . . . just be honest. Give the book
to her for a special gift.
Your lover's nipples may be more sensitive than your own. If they are,
this Interlude will delight him. Wet one nipple with your tongue, then flick
it with your finger tip while you lick and flick the other nipple with your
tongue. If his nipples are sensitive he will quickly get an erection. When
he does, you will have three areas to work: each nipple and his penis. Vary
your action. For example, suck him while you are flicking each nipple with
a moistened fingertip; then stroke him with one hand while your tongue and the
other hand massages and teases his nipples. Give him a climax this way.
The next time you're at a big, dull party, grab a quickie with your lady
in your host's bathroom or secluded patio. Whisper to her to take off her
panties and meet you at the appointed spot. If it's a bathroom, lock the
door and seat her on the countertop-- she can wrap her legs around you while
you take her standing up. If it's a patio, find a ledge or lie on a lounge
chair and let her straddle you. Wherever the encounter, remember. . . no noise!
During foreplay, turn your lady on her stomach and kiss her shoulders and
back. Slap her sharply on her buttocks with the flat palm of your hand. It
should sting a bit, but not really hurt. Do this repeatedly, taking care to
intersperse the spanking with kisses and caresses on her buttocks.
During intercourse, take her from behind and slap her buttocks again as
she nears a climax.
This can be very pleasurable for many women, but be sure not to cross the
border into pain.
Tonight you will transport your lady to new heights. So that you will be
in complete control of her responses, you must bind her. . . with satin chains.
Undress her and use satin ribbons to tie her wrists and ankles to the bed-
posts or frame. She should be in a spreadeagle position. Begin by kissing
and tonguing her from head to toe. Linger for a while at each nipple. Caress
her entire body, front and back, with a peacock or ostrich feather. Perform
cunnilingus, flicking her clitoris lightly with your tongue while you brush
her breasts with the feather. When she nears orgasm, move away from the
center of her excitement to keep her hanging on the edge.
Vary your activities among kissing, tonguing, and brushing with the
feather. Don't give her an orgasm for at least an hour--then give her several
orally. After each one,kiss and caress her body as you build to the next one.
Finally, untie her legs and take her as you wish. Afterwards, untie her wrists
and hold her in your arms.
One of the greatest turn-ons to many women is the thought of creating
uncontrollable desire in their man. The next time you wake up in the middle
of the night with an erection, enter her without any preliminaries. (You may
need a lubricant as she will not have had a chance to create her own.) As you
begin to move, she will wake up to find you in her. This should be a short,
sweet encounter, not a sexual marathon, and the time not to try it is when she
has an early morning meeting!
P.S. Some people can wake themselves up at a specific time by auto-
suggestion just before going to sleep!
You are master, she is slave. She will obey your every sexual whim.
She is eager to please her master. Speak to her . . . and enjoy!
Instructions to her: Submit! Tonight he is your adoring slave. Your
wish is his command. But you must command. Tell
him what you want, how you want it, when you want
it. Exercise your power!
Instructions to him: Do exactly what she says, slave!
During foreplay, lightly pat your lady between the legs directly on the
vagina with the flat palm of your hand. Increase the tempo and pressure
slightly if it seems to turn her on.
Photograph your lady in all her many moods. Have her dress up for you in
her special sexy clothes: lingerie, garterbelt and stockings, hat, anything
that takes your fancy. Pose her in various seductive ways. (Use your erotic
photo collection for suggestions.) Before each photograph kiss her, touch
her, indulge in a little foreplay--if you want her to look sexy, make her feel
sexy! Look at your array of her photos together, and let them inspire you to
Chill a bottle of champagne and suggest that your lady take a long,
leisurely bubble bath. After she is in the tub, undress and take the
champagne and glasses to the bathroom. Pour champagne over her shoulders. . .
then join her in the tub. Toast her loveliness! Drink, kiss, touch, play,
relax in the steamy warmth. Help her from the tub and dry each other with a
Turkish towel. Bend her across the vanity, her buttocks toward you and take
her from behind while she watches in the bathroom mirror.
Tonight your lady wants to be dominated in a primitive way. Try a game
of bondage . . . she is bound and helpless while you are the ravager. Just
remember to whisper words of love throughout the bondage scene. Tell her to
undress and wait for you in bed. Get satin or velvet ribbons to bind and a
soft leather belt. Tie each of her wrists and ankles to the bedposts so that
she is in a spread eagle position. Blindfold her with a scarf so that she
can't see what you are going to do next. Now, begin a symphony of sexual
assault, licking, nibbling, kissing her entire body. As she becomes more
and more aroused, tease her by entering her and withdrawing quickly. Tease
her mouth with your penis. Flick her very lightly (or harder, if she asks
for it) with the belt. The more she struggles, the more you tease. Kiss
her lips occasionally and whisper words of love. Finally, untie one leg and
retie it to her opposite arm so that her buttocks and genitals are exposed
to you. Enter her from this side/back position and "mock-rape" her while
lightly flicking her buttocks with the belt. Afterwards, untie her quickly
and let her come down to earth in your arms.
She wants romance. This is your chance to spend time showing your love.
1. Spend time kissing and cuddling her before you get out of bed.
2. Send flowers to her office or home.
3. Call her mid-day and say I love you.
4. Plan dinner at a nice restaurant that has dancing.
5. Meet for drinks after work.
6. Buy her a small 'special' gift.
7. At dinner give her the gift. Talk about your feelings and plans. Tell
her how you feel about her. Ask her to dance and hold her close.
8. After dinner go to your favorite bar for a nightcap. When you get
home, make love by candlelight.
Tell your lady you have a gift for her. Then undress and place a cock
ring (which you can buy at a sex shop) around your erect cock. Tie a big red
bow around your cock. Now, wait for her to discover you in bed. The cock
ring should keep you hard for hours while you give her the rest of your gift.
During intercourse in the missionary position, put your legs on the
outside of hers, resting your weight on your arms. Then, bend your knees and
move your legs, one at a time, as if you are riding a bicycle. Keep "riding"
in slow steady movements as you kiss her passionately. She will feel as if
you are climbing deep, deep into her. This has been known to make nonorgasmic
Give your lady a different kind of sensation. Take her upside-down, sort
of. Sit on a low stool and have your lady straddle you, face-to-face. Then
have her lie back until her head is resting on a pillow which you've placed on
the floor. Grasp her thighs and move her back and forth on your penis. This
can intensify an orgasm.
Do you like erotic photographs? Maybe your lady will too. Buy a Playgirl
or gay magazine to go with your Playboy or Penthouse collection. Ask your lady
to look at them with you. As you leaf through the pages, point out the photos
that most turn you on. Ask her to do the same. It may give you some ideas for
the rest of this Interlude.
Rent an X-rated videotape and invite your lady to watch it with you.
Dress in loose robes and settle down to watch the movie. Let the action on the
screen unlock your inhibitions this evening.
During foreplay, give your lady a triple treat. Kiss her deeply, probing
her mouth with your tongue. Moisten your finger with saliva or vaginal
secretions and insert it gently in her anus while another finger explores her
vagina. The sensations for her are extraordinary.
You may have overlooked one of your lady's most erogenous zones: the back
of her neck and hair. During foreplay, concentrate on this area. Kiss the
back of her neck and just where the hair starts to grow. Moisten it with your
tongue, then blow on it softly. Run your fingers through the hair next to the
scalp gently, massaging the scalp with your fingertips. Continue this at
length, then move on to other foreplay, then to intercourse. Throughout,
however, keep your fingers moving through her hair in this special erotic place.
Your lady is tired tonight and not in the mood for complicated sex. This
is a great time to enjoy sex in its simplest form: The Kiss. Tell her that you
don't want to make love, but that you just want to kiss and hold her. Then do
just that. Explore all possibilities of the kiss. Alternate gentle, no-tongue
kisses with deep, probing French kisses. Run your tongue over her lips and
bite her lower lip gently. Kiss her eyelids, her cheeks, her forehead, and
return to her lips. Kissing is a pure way of saying: "I love you and want
you just as you are."
Say it with roses . . . but not in the usual way. Buy several dozen
roses. While your lady is in the bath, scatter the petals over the sheets.
When she comes from her bath, lay her down in the bed of roses and make
love amid the heady fragrance.
During lovemaking, when you are close to orgasm, put your penis between
her breasts. Hold her breasts snugly around your penis as you thrust. Come
on her breasts, then massage your semen into her skin. (Semen is said to be
good for the skin!)
What does your lady like that you don't particularly enjoy? The ballet?
The opera? The symphony or theater? Punk rock? Surprise her with tickets to a
special performance. Get the best seats in the house. Make a date with her
for the evening but don't tell her where you're going until you get there.
Relax and try to enjoy it. Then take her for a late supper afterwards.
Invite your lady to lunch. Have her meet you at your office or pick her
up at hers, after you've ordered sandwiches and wine from the deli! Take her
to the park and eat lunch on a park bench. Feed the pigeons. Go for a
leisurely stroll and feel the cares of the day drop away.
Most women won't go into a sex shop alone. But she'll probably go with
you. Take her into the nicest sex shop you can find and browse. Examine all
the sexual aids the store has to offer and buy those that interest you. Then,
go home and try them out.
Your lady's labia are the lips of love. Give them special attention
tonight. Kiss her inner thighs and tease her labia with your tongue and
fingers. Then, paint her love lips with bright red lipstick. Show her your
handiwork with a hand-held mirror. As you enter her, watch her red-hot lips
close around you.
You'll need your lady's consent for this one, but if a bare, little-girl
pussy turns you on, ask her if you can shave her pubic area. Take a bath to-
gether first, then clip her pubic hair very short with scissors. Next, lather
her pussy with shaving cream and shave her very, very carefully. Rub her down
with lotion or oil, including her newly shaved pussy. Then lick her to orgasm
before you enter her.
Surprise your lady with a beefcake calendar . . . of YOU! Take several
dozens of photographs of yourself in a variety of sexy poses -- nude or in sexy
costumes -- and have 12 of the best shots enlarged to fit a purchased photo
calendar. Glue your photos over the calendar's photos. Voila! Your very own
beefcake calendar . . . a gift she'll treasure forever. (These self-portraits
can be made easily by mounting a camera on a tripod and focusing it on your
Make this morning very special for your lady . . . serve her breakfast in
bed. Let her sleep while you prepare breakfast; then wake her with a kiss and a
glass of champagne. When she finishes breakfast, offer yourself as dessert.
Send your lady on a treasure hunt. Buy several erotic gifts to hide
throughout the house -- vibrators, sexual toys, scented body oil, sexy
lingerie. Give her a written clue in a gift-wrapped box which directs her to
the first gift. The first gift should then have a written clue to direct her
to the second gift, and so on. The last gift should contain instructions on
what you have in mind for the evening, using all the gifts she has found.
It's your show! (It is fun to also include a hint in each gift of what the
next gift is all about. Be creative -- and you'll both enjoy the hunt!)
Your lady wants to be babied tonight, without having to reciprocate.
That's okay--your turn will come. Draw a bath for her and bring her favorite
drink to sip while she is relaxing. Light candles in the bedroom and turn down
the bed. When she is finished with her bath, dry her off and have her lie
down while you rub lotion on her body. Use her vibrator to give her a quick
but satisfying orgasm. Then, blow out the candles and let her sleep like a
Your lady is tired and has little interest in active sex . . . but she'd
still like it. This is your opportunity to give. You're going to treat her
to a total massage. While she is showering, heat some body oil and spread a
large towel on the bed to protect the linens. Then start the massage with
her shoulders and neck and back muscles, kneading them firmly with your oiled
hands. Spend most of your attention here, where tension and stress gather.
Then, turn her over and massage her arms, hands, legs and feet. When she is
almost asleep, gently massage her breasts and stomach, arousing her slowly,
as you make your way down to her pussy. Perform cunnilingus to bring her to
orgasm. Then let her drift off to sleep.
INSTRUCTIONS OF VARIOUS THINGS FOR HER
Before you make love, put on leather gloves. Then, when you're kissing
your lover, caress his face with your leather-covered fingers and let him
inhale the fragrance of the leather.
The sexy scent will carry you both to new heights of ecstasy.
Wear a strapless top when you go out to dinner, or a blouse that buttons
down the front, with no bra. In the car on the way home casually pull down
your top or unbutton your blouse to expose one breast. When he notices (he
will!), smile sexily and start caressing your breast. Wet your fingers and
and massage your nipple lightly, rolling it between two fingers. Say
nothing, just continue caressing your breast with one hand and the back of
his neck and ear with the other. When you get home, he'll take care of the
Have your lover get undressed and lie on the bed. Turn off all the lights so
that the bedroom is as dark as possible. Slowly run your fingers and
tongue over his body, finally concentrating on his penis. Give it all your
attention, bringing him almost to orgasm and then retreating, then
repeating this again and again. When your think he can stand it no longer,
let him come in your mouth.
Here is a refreshing Interlude for a hot summer day. First, turn off the
air conditioning in your house before your lover comes home. Then, an hour
or two before he is due, fill the bathtub with cold water. Dissolve two
dozen boxes of Jello (your favorite flavor or multi flavors) in warm water,
then add to the bathtub. Add a bag of ice to thicken the mixture. Then
wait. When he arrives, tell him you have prepared a surprise for him and
ask him to shower with you in another bathroom (if possible). Now, lead him
to the bathtub of jello. Climb in with him for a savory, slippery sensa-
tion. Afterwards, lick each other dry!
Remember pillow fights when you were a kid? Start one with your lover
(goose down pillows are the best!)
Heave a pillow at him when he comes out of the bathroom ready for bed.
He'll throw it back, of course, but it becomes a pillow fight only when you
both let go and start slugging it out with pillows. With children, pillow
fights end up with admonitions from a parent. With adults, pillow fights can
end up in uninhibited lovemaking! You are an adult, aren't you?
While your lover takes a shower, dress up in all your jewelry -- rings on
every finger, bracelets, ropes of beads or chains around your neck, breasts,
waist, legs and nothing else. Now, light lots of candles and lie in the
middle of the bed and wait for him.
Release the performer in you and put on a show for your lover. Buy
several vibrators and dildos. Make a stage out of your bed by focusing several
lights on it, and give your lover a comfortable front-row seat in the shadows.
Arrange your "tools" on the bed and put on some sexy music. Now start by
stripping slowly and moving to the music on the bed. Insert one of the
vibrators in your pussy and stroke it slowly as you hold another one on your
clitoris. Let him hear your pleasure as you rise toward a soaring climax.
Don't stop now. Dip a dildo in a bowl of honey or whipped cream, and
then lick and suck it while you hold another vibrator deep inside you. Get on
your knees with your bottom toward your "audience". With one vibrator still
inside you, take another one and caress your nipples, then your clit.
Continue with as many variations and orgasms as your imagination
and strength allow.
If you're not the jealous type, hire a female stripper to dance for
your lover in private (with you there, of course!). Plan a dinner at home and
arrange for the dancer to arrive just after dinner. Have your lover sit on
the sofa while she dances sensuously for him. Photograph or videotape the
dance for future enjoyment. How far she strips and how long she stays is
up to you!
Leave your lover a message on his bathroom mirror after a lovely night of
lovemaking, inviting him to your next Interlude, e.g., "I'm still throbbing
with pleasure. Meet me in the Jacuzzi at 7. I'll bring the bubbly."
Then, follow through!
P.S. If you don't have a Jacuzzi, a swimming pool or lawn chair in the
back yard will do nicely!
After a relaxing shower or bath, give your lover a tongue bath. Start at
his neck and ears and work your way down his back, licking him slowly and
carressing him with your fingertips.
Spread his buttocks and slowly lick your way to his anus. Tease him a
bit by circling his secret spot slowly.
Then when he is moaning with pleasure, lick his anus directly with slow,
slightly pulsating motions. It's clean and fresh, and you'll give him new
erotic sensations. Now, turn him over and see the hard proof of your efforts.
Climb on and enjoy!
On your next auto trip, wear some easily removable clothes. After dark,
ask your lover to pull over at a roadside park. Then undress in the car
while he remains dressed. Caress yourself while he watches, and bring your-
self to a climax. Then unzip his pants and perform fellatio. Continue on
If you have a video tape recorder, rent a video camera to create a
surprise Interlude or your lover. Videotape yourself doing a striptease and
masturbating. (Set the camera on a tripod to focus on your setting). Give
the videotape to him giftwrapped. Then have him watch it alone while you wait
for him in bed . . .
The next time you make love, try this to double your pleasure. When your
lover enters you, turn on your vibrator and place it on your clitoris so that
he can also feel its vibrations. Come together this way.
Your man doesn't feel like making love tonight. Show him he doesn't have
to perform to please you.
When he is in bed, give him a shoulder and back massage. Run your tongue
lightly up and down his spine. Tell him you care. Alternate brushing his
back with your fingertips and lips.
Then go to sleep curled around his back. Let body warmth be enough.
Sit on the floor at your lover's feet and perform fellatio. Occasionally,
take a sip of an iced drink and hold it in your mouth for a few seconds.
Swallow it and quickly take him into your chilled mouth. Continue as long
as he likes it.
He wants to be babied tonight. He wants to be smothered with your
attention without having to reciprocate. That's okay--your turn will come!
Light a fire in the fireplace or light several candles, and turn out the
lights. Spread a blanket on the floor. Undress your lover. Now undress
yourself slowly by the light of the fire while he watches. Run your fingers
lightly over his body from head to toe, then perform fellatio until he is fully
erect. Bring him to orgasm any way you like and go to sleep in each other's
arms in front of the fireplace.
The next time you go to a party, dab some of your own perfume--your love
juices--behind each ear. Then dance with your lover or kiss him and let him
sniff the secret behind your ears. The musky fragrance will probably cause an
early exit as he rushes you home to bed. (Caution: Avoid other men at the
party or you may start a stampede!)
Tonight you will tease your man to the edge of ecstasy and beyond . . .
The only way to accomplish this is to bind him securely. Have him undress
and lie on the bed. Using velvet ropes, tie his ankles together and tie his
wrists behind his back. Blindfold him. Now strip to your panties and kneel
astride him. Give him your scent, your signature, by pressing your underarms,
your breasts, your covered pussy against his face. Now strip off your panties
and begin the warm-up. Brush your lips over his penis lightly, then take it
fully in your mouth to make it hard. During the initial stage you should keep
both his mouth and his penis occupied simultaneously: Start with one hand
stroking his penis and one hand, flavored with the scent of your sex, over his
mouth; alternate with one hand on his penis and your pussy on his mouth.
For the grand finale, straddle his chest and begin mouthwork on his penis
with slow strokes, about one per second. After several seconds, switch to ten
or so very quick strokes, then resume the slow rhythm. Continue to alternate
this pattern. If he nears ejaculation, drop the tempo. Keep this up as long
as he can stand it. Then bring him to climax with your mouth or hand, or turn
and ride him. After his orgasm, untie him quickly so that you can rest in
each other's arms.
Your lady's nipples may be her most erogenous zone, so begin here. Suck,
nibble, or tongue one nipple while you roll the other between two moistened
fingers. Gently massage the entire breast--vary the pressure to her liking.
Return to the nipples, going from one to the other. Use as much pressure
and/or teeth as she wishes. Maybe she would like to climax this way? If not,
continue down her body and perform cunnilingus until she comes again and
again, while you keep one or both hands active on her nipples and breasts.
Your man wants a lady in the parlor, a slut in the bedroom. He knows
you're the former--show him you can be the latter as well.
Dress up in dark stockings, garter belt, and high heels. Put on a sexy,
lacy, barely-there bra. Then demand that he make love to you--on your terms.
Tell him what you want him to do, where you want him to touch or kiss you.
Make him respond to your every need. Sweep away all your inhibitions
. . . and he'll sweep away his.
Your lover has indicated a special erogenous zone. Attend to it in a
special way during this Interlude. Before you start, get out your vibrator,
preferably a small battery-operated one. Spread vasoline over its tip.
During fellatio or intercourse, turn on the vibrator and very gently insert
the tip in his anus. The sensation, it is said, can be incredible!
There's a little voyeur in most men, so give full rein to your lover's
voyeuristic fantasies! Send him outside to the patio or balcony. Tell him to
make himself comfortable while you prepare a surprise. Let him wait a few
minutes to build up his anticipation, then stand in front of the window where
he can see you and begin to undress slowly and seductively. Don't be self-
conscious; pretend you are an actress playing a sexy role! Put on your
sexiest lingerie and recline in a chair in front of the window. Caress your
nipples, breasts, inner thighs. Go slowly so that he will have time to enjoy
your performance. Touch youself in your favorite place, first with your
fingers, then with your vibrator if you wish. When you are ready, give
yourself over completely to orgasm. He will soon be in to claim you.
Suggest to your lover that you go out to dinner. Wear a dress and no
panties or pantyhose.
During dinner tell him you aren't wearing any panties and watch his
interest rise. If you can do so discretely, slip your hand under your dress
and stroke yourself during dinner from time to time. Let him know what you
are doing. On the way home in the car, guide his hand up your dress and let
him feel your wetness. Unzip his pants and stroke his cock all the way home.
When you get inside the house, kneel on the floor in front of him and take
him in your mouth. Bring him to orgasm right then and there!
Your lover likes to watch you without your knowing it. Tonight let him
watch you perform your after-bath ritual. . .as if you didn't know he was
Ask him to wait for you in the bedroom while you bathe, making sure that
he is seated or lying in view of the bathroom door. After your bath perform
your after-bath ritual with the door open, as seductively as possible, knowing
that each movement charms and entices him. As you dry yourself, stretch and
bend to rub every inch of your body. Be sure that you are within sight of your
lover, but pretend not to see him, to heighten the voyeuristic aspect. Rub
body lotion sensuously over your body, caressing your breasts, stomach,
buttocks, and legs as he watches. Now slip into something silky and sexy and
begin to brush your hair with long, slow strokes, with your head back and
your eyes closed. As you near 100 strokes begin to count out loud, increasing
your rhythm slightly.
If your lover has not approached you by the 100th stroke, go to him and
show him how sexy you feel!
If your lover has never experienced a vibrator, he is in for a very
Show him how it feels by moving it across his shoulders and chest. Run it
over the insides of his thighs. Gently glide it along the shaft of his penis.
Give him the vibrator to caress your genital area and thighs. Guide him in
its use for your greatest pleasure. Let him bring you to orgasm with it
. . . then return the favor.
Be a seductress tonight. . .in garterbelt, stockings, and high-heeled
shoes! Add a black lace bra and forget the panties. You won't need them.
Move around the room for your lover to excite him visually. Touch
yourself and offer him the scent of your love juices. While he is sitting
on a sofa, kneel over his face to "kiss" him with your vulva. Now slowly
undress him and perform fellatio while he nibbles and kisses your buttocks.
Mount and ride him so that he can watch you in your sexy garments. Lift your
breasts out of the bra and offer them to his lips. Move through different
positions, taking your time on each so that you both can savor its fullness.
Let the passion build slowly to the point of no return.
Make this morning very special for him. . . serve your lover breakfast in
Let him sleep while you prepare breakfast; then wake him with a kiss and
champagne. When he finishes breakfast, offer yourself as dessert.
Serve him a topless lunch. Call him at work and ask him to meet you at
home for lunch. Light candles and close drapes to make the dining area as dark
and sexy as possible. Fix a simple lunch. When he arrives, greet him clad
only in panties. Seat him at the table set with your best linen and china.
Serve him lunch. While he eats, put on music. Climb onto a table and dance
for him. After lunch . . .
Your man would like to watch you masturbate, so make it extra erotic for
him. Put on a loose silky robe and get the sexiest books you have (Delta of
Venus, for example, or a Forum magazine). Sit in a soft armchair opposite him.
Read aloud the erotic passages from the book or magazine. As you read, part
your robe to reveal your legs and pubic area. Throw one leg across the arm
of the chair and touch yourself as the words of the book arouse you. Pretend
that you are alone, or that a stranger is watching you from across the way.
Set your own pace, but let the words arouse your excitement.
Remember that your voice and your actions are equally exciting to him!
When you are sufficiently aroused, give yourself over completely to orgasm.
Then take care of him.
Approach your lover while he is reading or watching TV. Touch the inside
of his ear lightly, outlining it with your finger. Now trace the outline with
your tongue and flick it gently just above the earlobe. Let your finger return
to trace that ear while your tongue moves to his other ear. Now you have his
full attention! Softly kiss his eyelids, his cheeks,then his lips while you
caress his neck and shoulders.
Now step away from him and entice him with a slow, sensuous strip tease.
No fast or fancy movements . . . just remove each garment slowly and caress
your body as you bare it for him. Do it to music if you like. Once you are
naked, spend a minute or two touching yourself in your special places. Go to
him now and begin to remove his clothes. Caress his body with your fingers or
lips as you remove each piece of clothing. Enjoy each other fully,
sensuously, without haste.
Tell your lover you are going to give him the time of his life tonight and
that you must place him in bondage so that he can fully enjoy it. Bind his
ankles and wrists with velvet ropes and tie a gag over his mouth (Use a knotted
white handkerchief.) Prop his head with pillows so that he is in a half-
sitting position. Now, slowly strip for him and start your one-woman show.
Don't be shy-- men love to watch their ladies be deliberately sexy! Move around
the room for him slowly. Touch your breasts, your nipples, and your thighs.
Give him a rear view as you caress the crease where your buttocks join your
thighs. Rub your hand between your legs to get the scent of your love juices,
then press that hand against his face. Now place yourself in a comfortable
position so that he can see you begin to masturbate. His blood should reach
the boiling point as he helplessly watches you make love to yourself. Give
yourself over to orgasm after orgasm. Finally, untie him and prepare to be
Your lover is tired tonight. He has little interest in active sex . . .
but he'd still like it! This is your opportunity to give. Send him to take a
shower. While he is showering, heat body oil for an oil rubdown. When he is
in bed, start with his shoulders and back, kneading his muscles firmly with
your oiled hands. Concentrate most of your attention here to ease away his
tiredness. Turn him over and begin on his arms and chest. Work your way down
his body to concentrate on handwork with his penis. The oil lubricates it so
that it is slippery and your hand moves quickly and easily. Bring him to
orgasm this way. Afterwards, cleanse him with a warm, wet cloth, and let him
drift off to sleep.
The next time you go out to a public affair, dress in a special way for
your man. Wear a garterbelt and stockings (not pantyhose) under your dress.
While you're dressing keep this a secret from your mate, but just before you
go out let him "accidentally" glimpse your garters. Be sure that you must be
somewhere at a certain time or he may attack you on the spot! The objective
is to tantalize him with the thought of you throughout the evening. When you
arrive home (early, perhaps?) you won't need any further suggestions for an
Give your man a book of love. Buy a notebook or a bound book with blank
pages. Write in it your thoughts about him, your fantasies, your feelings
about an experience you've shared. Quote lines of poetry that are especially
meaningful. Write a poem of your own! Don't think you have to be a published
writer to do this. Grammar, punctuation, spelling are not important. Honesty
is. Be as creative as you like--include drawings or photographs if
appropriate. Give the gift to your lover on a special occasion. . . he will
treasure it always.
Sexy undies and satin sheets can really get you going! Buy satin sheets
and cases. Buy yourself the sexiest lingerie you can find. Buy him silky
shorts and a silk or satin robe. Have his presents wrapped. Before he arrives,
make the bed with the satin sheets. Greet him at the door in the new outfit.
Give him his gifts and tell him to put them on while you fix drinks. Relax
for a time over drinks. Tell him to wait for you in bed so he can discover
the sheets! Join him and start the foreplay. You take the lead. Be creative
and seductive. Afterwards, have champagne in bed.
You may have overlooked one of your lover's most erogenous zones: the back
of his neck and hair. During foreplay, concentrate on this area. Kiss the back
of his neck just where the hair starts to grow. Moisten it with your tongue,
then blow on it softly. Run your fingers through his hair next to the scalp,
gently massaging the scalp with your fingertips. Continue this at length; then
move on to other foreplay, then to intercourse. Throughout, however, keep
your fingers moving through his hair in this special erotic place.
You'll need several long, soft leather belts. First, wrap a belt around
your lover's waist, under his balls, and tie it around his cock. Then wrap a
belt around your breasts, so that it cups each one; then tie it behind your
neck. Next, wrap a belt around your hips and thighs so that your pussy is
outlined in leather. Now, make love. Let the smell and feel of leather add
to the pleasures of your bodies.
Give your lover a different kind of "blow-job". Keeping your mouth about
two inches above his skin, blow gently all over his body. This is especially
effective if you moisten his skin first with your tongue. As an alternative,
use your hand-held hair dryer on a low setting.
Kidnap your man for a trip. Make all the plans in secret. Even pack
for him. Find some excuse to get him to the airport, train, or car. Don't
tell him anything until the last possible minute. Once you arrive, take the
lead in planning your interludes for the trip.
Sometimes a man wants sex without having to perform or give in return.
Sometimes we all do! Tonight your lover feels this way. Satisfy his longing
for passivity and don't allow him to reciprocate in any way. Your turn will
come! Wait until he has gone to bed, then join him. Don't try to arouse his
interest with kisses or foreplay--that implies reciprocation. Your intent is
to give him an orgasm quickly, surely, and swiftly. For a quick erection, go
down on him without preliminaries. Press the area between his anus and his
testicles. Tease him with your mouth until he grows rock-hard. Then straddle
him and ride him, slowly at first, then faster and faster until he comes.
Afterwards, kiss him lightly goodnight, and return to your own activities.
If your lover likes surprises, this should please and tease him. Slip out
of the house without his knowing it. Wear a trenchcoat and nothing else. Then
ring the front doorbell. When he answers the door, flash him. He'll be caught
off guard on two counts: Seeing you at the front door when he thought you were
in the house and seeing you naked beneath the coat! The next move is up to
you . . . unless, of course, he takes it from there.
Write your lover a "dirty" letter. Go into graphic detail about the plans
you have for the evening. Then plant the letter where you know that he -- and
only he -- will see it. Put it in the car on the driver's seat or in his
briefcase. You want him to discover it in the morning and to think about it
all day long! When he comes home, live up to your promises!
When your lover arrives home from work very tired and tense, treat him
to a foot massage. Prepare his favorite drink and tell him to remove his shoes
and relax. Prepare a large basin of hot water. Add fragrant bath salts and
place your lover's feet in the basin to soak for a few minutes. Get a towel,
floor pillow, bar of soap, and body lotion. Seat yourself on the floor pillow
at your lover's feet. Wash each foot slowly, lovingly, massaging it gently.
Dry his feet and put the basin of water aside. Now take one of his feet in your
lap and rub the lotion into it. Massage the instep and sole of the foot
deeply. Take his ankle in both your hands and massage it in small, circular
motions. Attend to each toe individually. Kiss each foot as you finish and/or
suck his toes! Repeat this procedure with the other foot. When you have
finished, let your lover take the lead. He may be relaxed enough to fall
asleep--or aroused enough to start a different kind of Interlude.
Your lover likes to see you in sexy costumes. Surprise him by appearing
in cowboy boots, a cowboy hat, leather vest, and open-crotch panties. Put on
your favorite country-western music. Tell him you want to play cowgirl!
Undress him (horses don't wear clothes!) and tell him to get on his hands and
knees. Then ride him bareback around the room, flicking him lightly with a
velvet rope. This is playtime. . . so let your imagination run wild.
Finally, make him lie on his back and ride him to orgasm, still clothed
in your boots, vest, and panties.
On your way home from a party or an evening out, give your lover a preview
of coming attractions. Take his hand and massage it gently. Kiss the palm, and
run your tongue over and around each finger. Now take one finger in your mouth
and suck it. Roll it around your tongue. Repeat with the other fingers.
Move your attention to his ear. Circle it with your tongue, then gently insert
your tongue in the ear and move it in and out softly. Breathe in against his wet
ear (don't blow in it). Return to his fingers, then back to his ear. Alternate
this until you arrive home. He will most likely take the lead from there.
Tell your lover you have a surprise for him and send him to take a shower.
Then take the fresh pineapple, which you've cut into rings, with whipped cream
to the bedroom. When your lover comes out of the shower, have him lie on his
back and close his eyes. Perform fellatio to make him erect. Then spread the
whipped cream on his penis and slip the pineapple rings over it. Now, eat
What does he like that you don't? Football? Baseball? Boxing? Surprise
him with tickets to a major event -- the Super Bowl, the World Series, a champ-
ionship boxing match, or perhaps just to watch his favorite teams. Make
arrangements for transportation and/or a tailgate picnic. Take a couple of
friends with you. If you don't actually enjoy the game, you'll surely enjoy
his pleasure from your gift.
No, of course he's not gay . . . but reading or fantasizing about gay sex
often turns on a man. Carry this idea one step further by introducing a second
"cock" for this Interlude. Put a rubber dildo under your pillow. During
foreplay, when you're kissing him passionately, produce the dildo and pull
back from him for a moment. Then start licking and sucking the dildo, slowly,
tantalizingly. Then, with the dildo still in your mouth, bring your lips
close to his so that he is kissing you while you're sucking the dildo. Slowly,
very slowly, move the dildo gradually from your mouth to his. Let him lick it
at first, along with you. Then, if he seems to be getting into the action, let
him take the whole thing in his mouth, as you continue to kiss him and lick
the dildo. Now, straddle him and ease his hardness into you, as you both
continue to suck the dildo and kiss each other. If he gives himself over
to the sensations, he'll come quite quickly . . . and so will you.
Tell your lover you're having dessert in bed tonight. You shower first,
and while he is showering, take a bowl of strawberries and a bowl of whipped
cream to the bedroom. Lie in the middle of your bed. Then spoon the whipped
cream over your breasts and navel. Arrange the strawberries in the cream
(you've destemmed and sliced the strawberries earlier so that they have a flat
side). Now wait for your lover to discover his strawberries and cream. After
he eats dessert, take the remaining whipped cream and spread it over his penis.
Eat one strawberry at a time, followed by a lick of his cream-covered handle.
When all the strawberries are gone, finish off the cream. . . and him!
Create a portfolio of yourself for your lover. If you have a trusted
photographer friend, enlist his or her help. If not, set up a camera with a
selftimer on a tripod and take your own photograph. Take dozens of nude and
semi-nude shots in various sexy poses (use Playboy or Penthouse for a guide).
Choose a dozen or so of the best shots and have them enlarged. Arrange the
photos in a beautiful album. Try putting sexy or funny captions on the photos,
or following Playboy's or Penthouse's format, write cutlines describing
yourself and your attitudes about sex. Give it to your lover as a special
Prepare a "menu" of all the sexual pleasures you will offer your lover
for the evening, complete with prices. Dress up like a hooker -- garterbelt
and mesh hose (no panties), stilleto heels, short slit satin skirt, see-
through blouse with no bra. Put on lots of make-up and a wig. Then tell him
that he must order his evening's pleasures from the menu. (By all means, take
the money -- and use it for your next surprise Interlude!)
Almost every man has a fantasy of making love to two women at once.
Indulge his by introducing an imaginary playmate the next time you make love.
Whisper to your lover all the things your playmate is doing to him (and to
you!). Let your imagination run wild, use your sexiest voice, and describe
everything in graphic detail. Do this only when you're ready for him to climax
because he won't last long with this kind of verbal stimulation.
Buy your lover a leopard jockstrap and yourself a leopard or leather
sarong (you can buy such things at most costume shops). Ask him to model it
for you while you change into your sarong. Then let jungle fever take you over
for the evening.
The next time your lover comes home from a business trip, pick him up at
the airport in a rented limousine. Take a silver or crystal cooler filled with
ice and champagne. Take crystal champagne glasses (not plastic ones) and maybe
some caviar. Ask the driver to wait at the entrance for you and to open the
champagne when he sees you at the door. Wear a trenchcoat and boots and
nothing else. Sip champagne and "play" all the way home . . . and be prepared
to be ravaged when you get there.
Give your lover a different sensation tonight. Have him lie on his back
on the bed with his head and upper torso hanging over the edge of the bed. You
may want to place a floor pillow next to the bed for his head. Now mount him
and ride him to a roaring climax in this inverted position.
INSTRUCTIONS FOR BOTH
You'll need a clear summer night for this Interlude, preferably away from
city lights. Lie in a hammock or on a blanket outdoors and watch the stars.
Talk of the worlds beyond our world.
Point out the constellations, if you know them, and make wishes on
shooting stars. Stay till dawn and watch the sun come up, then sleep till
How long has it been since you've been roller (or ice) skating? Rent
roller skates in the park, if your city has this, or go to a roller (or ice)
rink, and skate for hours. You may find that "The Skater's Waltz" has been
replaced by disco music, but get into the rhythm and enjoy it. (Watch out for the
little kids whizzing by!)
What did you do, where did you go, on your first date? Recreate that
memorable experience for a wondrous Interlude. If possible, wear the same
clothes, do the same things. Afterwards, talk about what each of you felt
on that first date. His impressions of her, her impressions of him, whether
you were nervous, whether you realized at that time the significance of the
event. You may remember things you had forgotten, and it's a delightful way to
rekindle the spark of early passions.
Pack a picnic lunch and blanket and bicycle to a park. Take a portable
tape player and your favorite tapes.
After the picnic, lie back and talk.
Really talk! You may find that kind of intimacy leads to a greater
intimacy during your lovemaking at home.
Play a favorite childhood game with an adult twist. Play Monopoly by the
original rules until all the properties are purchased, but limit each player to
three hotels to be built on his or her chosen properties. Now, when you land
on a hotel of your opponent you must pay the amount owed in monopoly money,
as well as pay with your body. The person landing on the property decides
how to pay with his or her body, with the objective being to make the other
person come as quickly as possible. If the person being paid comes, he or she
loses the game; if the person being paid wishes to hold out, he or she can
tell the other to stop, and the game goes on . . . until one or the other
comes. The question is, do you want to win the game -- or do you want an
orgasm? Post-game play can take any form you wish!
Yes, you can join the mile-high club without being arrested for indecency!
On your next flight, arrange to meet in the lavatory. Choose your time
carefully so you won't be observed entering an "occupied" lavatory. Once
inside, he can sit on the closed toilet seat while she lifts her skirt and sits
on his cock with her back to him. (She's prepared for this by removing her
panties earlier.) Or try it standing up. Despite the small enclosure,
there's still enough room for a memorable experience!
If you have a video tape recorder, rent a video camera and make a
videotape of yourselves while you are making love (maybe during one of the more
exotic Interludes). Afterwards, watch your home movie. . . and get ready to
Make an audio tape recording of your lovemaking. If you're inclined to
silence, try to be noisy. Express audibly all the pleasure you feel.
Talk, moan, groan, scream. Then, when you're in the mood for a special
treat, play the recording while you make love.
Create your own interlude! Give your mate the instructions and tell him
the computer gave them to you.
Remember how it was when you were unattached and saw an interesting face
across the bar? You can recreate that experience with your own lover and
recapture all the excitement and adventure of the chase!
Arrange to meet at a singles' bar, preferably one where you will not run
into people you know. Arrive separately. Sit across the bar from each other.
Pretend you don't know each other, but flirt with each other across the bar.
One of you should ask the other to dance, but don't drop your charade
even when alone on the dance floor.
Try to get acquainted with this "new" person. Proceed at a pace you
consider appropriate. Be outrageous, if you wish--part of the fun is fooling
the people around you! When it is time to leave, walk out arms entwined . . .
with the anticipation of what the evening has in store!
Dress in loose robes and select your favorite music for the stereo. Begin
with champagne and kisses. As your passion grows, put on headphones (both
of you) and continue kissing --just kissing--and sipping champagne. Slowly
expand your activities to touching, caressing, and exploring each other's
bodies. Spend up to an hour kissing and touching as the music heightens
your desires. Make love to the sound of music. (You should probably remove
the headphones first!)
One of the best ways to explore your lover's body is to touch every inch,
every crease, every crevice. What better way than body painting?
Buy a box of Body Paints for Lovers. Spread a sheet on the floor, strip
off your clothes and start painting your live canvas. Let your creativity
soar as you paint each other head to toe, front and back. Afterwards, admire
your handiwork. Then make love and shower together -- or shower together and
then make love.
Whichever turns you on.
Try something a little different tonight when you make love. When you
are ready to climax, move away from your lover and prop yourselves against
pillows opposite each other. Begin to masturbate while watching each other.
Talk or communicate with sounds just as you would during intercourse. Try to
time it so that you climax together.
Sorry, you struck out! Take a cold shower and try again tomorrow night.
Play hookie today . . . stay home from work, lock the doors, unplug the
phone, and lose yourself to each other.
Eat breakfast in the nude . . . and go from there. There's no reason to
hurry--you have all day. Now is your chance to say and do the things you
always put off because you were tired or in a hurry.
This is a day to laugh and play with each other--a day for pillow fights
and wrestling matches and making love in every room in the house. Don't let
anything divert your attention from loving and playing with each other.
Take a nap together, relax by the pool, but always with the thought of
the next loving encounter.
Take pleasure in each other on this slightly wicked, carefree day of fun.
Mirrors expand and enhance the action that goes on in your bed. They can
satisfy both your exhibitionist and voyeuristic desires since you are performer
and viewer at once. Ideally, you would be surrounded with mirrors-- on two
walls and the ceiling--but a full-length portable mirror and a hand mirror
Place the full-length mirror on the bed against the wall so that you can
see yourself lying on the bed. Place the hand mirror within reach. During
intercourse watch yourselves in the mirror. Try different positions. She
may wish to hold the hand mirror near the genitalia to watch her lover's
movements in her.
Remember, you are both star and audience!
Skinny dipping is easiest if you have your own swimming pool, but late
night cloaks even an apartment pool in privacy!
So, if it's summertime, take a moonlight swim in the nude. (If it's
not summer, select another Interlude!) Relish the air of the forbidden. Enjoy
the feel of your lover's body under water. If it is private, make love on
a blanket under the stars without drying off. If there's less privacy, do it
in the pool or return to your bedroom for the final act.
Spread a large mat or sheet on the floor. Strip to your bikini underwear
and rub each other with body oil or suntan oil. Now, wrestle!
Instructions to him:
Don't overpower your lady so that there is no
contest. The fun is in the wrestling itself.
When you're both highly aroused, you can use your
strength to "finish" the match.
Instructions to her:
Use all your strength . . . you just might win!
If it's summer, proceed with this Interlude . . . if it's not, return
to the computer for a warmer Interlude.
Making love in a swing can give your lady unexpected and very pleasurable
sensations. Your job is to find a swing with some degree of privacy. A porch
swing will do, but the best kind is the single board on chains, such as you
find on a playground. (Maybe you could attach one to a tree in your back yard?)
Sit in the swing and have your lady straddle you face to face, with you in
her. (Whether you do this partially clothed or totally nude depends on the
location of the swing and your discretion!) Begin to swing, pumping with your
feet, until you reach as high as you can go. You may or may not be able to
reach orgasm this way, but chances are, she will!
Well, you can't win 'em all. Curl up with a good book and try again
Sharing fantasies can be a way to deeper intimacy. Tonight, share your
favorite sexual fantasy with your lover. Act it out if possible, or let it
stimulate greater creativity in your lovemaking.
Lie on the floor on your sides facing each other, with your heads
together and your feet pointing in opposite directions. Begin by kissing
each other's lips in this position. Then ease your way down each other's
bodies, each going in opposite directions, arriving at the nipples
simultaneously. Go slowly; let the passion and tension build. Continue on
to the navel, the stomach, then on to your goal--your lover's genitals.
Crook one leg so that your lover's head can rest on your thigh. Devote
your full attention to this area in its infinite variations. Climax together
or separately, at your own, leisurely pace.
How long has it been since you've necked in the back seat of a car at a
drive-in movie? Take a leap back in time tonight and recapture that deli-
ciously forbidden feeling you had as a teenager. Take a six-pack (or your
favorite wine) and popcorn or snacks, and head for your nearest drive-in movie.
Who cares what's playing? You and your love will provide the main attraction
in the back seat! How "far" should you go? How far did you go as a teen?
Did you ever wonder if you're touching your mate exactly the way he or she
likes? No one can do it better than you can yourself, so give your lover a
close-up of how you like it. For this hands-on demonstration, lie in a sixty-
nine position with each partner's leg bent to make a "pillow" for the other's
head. Perform fellatio and cunnilingus until you're both near climax. Then
switch to masturbation for the climax. Because of your position, he can watch
exactly where and how she touches herself, and she can see the rhythm and pace
at which he strokes himself.
This is the night for experimentation. Get a copy of the Kama Sutra and
look through it together. Choose different positions you'd like to try. Try
them. Many of those shown have little to offer except novelty, but you may
find some you really like. Add those to your repertoire for future lovemaking.
Have a hard day? Forget the drink. Drink deeply of your love instead.
Ease away each other's tensions with kisses and caresses. Undress each other
leisurely. It's early--no need to rush. Enjoy your lover fully right where
Give your lovemaking a romantic glow tonight. While your lover is getting
ready for bed, light one or more candles and turn out the bedroom lights. The
romantic glow of candlelight will set the mood for a lovely Interlude.
Take a quick tension break--five minutes from start to finish. It's a
basic way to say "I always have time for your love."
Anyone who has seen the movie Tom Jones knows how sexy food can be. But
you can carry it one step further with an indoor picnic!
Prepare a picnic of cold finger foods (boiled shrimp, fried chicken,
asparagus, cheese, fruit, etc.) and your favorite beverage. Spread a blanket
on the floor and arrange the food on the blanket. Undress for dinner.
As you eat, keep conversation to a minimum. Let you eyes do the talking.
Caress your food with your lips and tongue, as if it were your lover.
Afterwards, race each other to the bedroom.
Imagine the touch of a summer breeze on your bare skin as you prepare
your favorite picnic feast for this Interlude. Drive to a secluded picnic spot
in the woods or at the beach. Spread a soft blanket on the ground and take off
all your clothes. (It is secluded, isn't it?) Let the sun's rays and the warm
breeze caress your skin. Eat and drink and touch each other. The forbidden
atmosphere and the possibility of discovery should create an air of intense
excitement. Make love if you dare, but listen for footsteps!
If the temperature is below 72 degrees, better choose another Interlude!
Congratulations! You have found the most secret, the most sought after
Interlude of all time . . . The Ultimate Experience. And that it is. After
this Interlude, your love life may never again be the same! The Ultimate
Experience takes place over FOUR nights! It calls for patience and restraint
-- and a great deal of both! But the reward can be one of the greatest sexual
experiences of your life. You are going to recreate your "very first time".
You are going to build up to a libido-shattering crescendo with all of the
excitement of that very first time, BUT with all the experience that you
currently have. The closer you follow each night's instructions, the more
gratifying the experience will be!
Night 1: Remember when kissing was all that was allowed? That's all you
can do tonight. Go out on a date or spend the evening at home.
It doesn't matter. But at the end of the evening, just kiss
each other. In the car, on the sofa, anywhere but on the bed.
Stay fully clothed and spend an hour or more just kissing.
Explore all the nuances of kissing, but don't touch, not even
through your clothes! And DON'T make love tonight. Make a date
for tomorrow night and sleep in separate beds tonight!
Night 2: Tonight you've graduated to petting! After your date, repeat
the kissing of last night, but now you can touch each other's
bodies through and under your clothes -- but DON'T get
undressed! You can touch each other in every wonderful place
-- BUT DON'T GET UNDRESSED AND DON'T MAKE LOVE! At the end of
the evening, make a date for tomorrow night -- and, yes, sleep
in separate beds tonight!
Night 3: Tonight you'll go further than last night . . . but not all the
way! After your date, repeat the activities of Night 1 and
Night 2. Spend a lot of time kissing before you get to petting!
And spend a lot of time petting before you UNDRESS each other!
Yes, tonight you will undress each other and explore each
other's bodies to your heart's content . . . but DON'T have
intercourse and don't give each other an orgasm! At the end of
the evening, make a date for tomorrow night! It's your choice
whether you dare sleep together in your excited condition!
It's probably best that you sleep in separate beds one more
Night 4: This is the night you've been waiting for! The night you can
finally consummate your love for each other! After your date
(surely you can wait till after your date!), repeat the
activities of Night 1, 2 and 3 -- s l o w l y! Take your time
as you explore every inch of each other's bodies with your
lips, hands, and tongue. Make it last as long as you can and
then release all the wonderful sexual tension that has built
up over the past three nights! Make mad, passionate love all
night long . . . and go to sleep wrapped in each other's arms
-- sated, happy, and completely satisfied!
The Ultimate Experience!
Take advantage of a warm summer night. A lawn chair, a pool float, a
hammock or a blanket on the grass. . . can be a perfect bed for your love
tonight. It's dark . . . no one can see you. Enjoy the night's music as you
come together in the dark. (If it's the dead of winter, select another
During passionate lovemaking, a bit of mock force or "abuse" can fuel
the flames and drive both partners to higher levels of ecstasy. Your lover
has indicated that he would enjoy a bit of "abuse" tonight, so . . . during
intercourse when he nears orgasm, sharply slap his buttocks with the palm of
your hand until he climaxes.
Create your own interlude! Give your mate the instructions and tell her
the computer gave them to you.
Treat your lover to an erotic massage-- a feather-light touch all over
the body with your fingertips. Start on your lover's back, neck and shoulders
and continue down the body with your light, light touch. The fingers should
really not touch the skin at all but the hair on the skin. Now do the other
side, starting with the face and moving over the entire body. Remember, keep
it light. Finally, return to the genital area and switch to mouthwork. Keep
it teasing and gentle until passion dictates otherwise.
Sex can be a mystical experience. To bring out this aspect, add a little
yoga to your love making. Light several candles and turn out the lights.
Spread a blanket on the floor or sit on floor pillows. Have your lover sit
in a modified lotus position (or Indian-like with ankles crossed). Run fingers
lightly over his skin, starting with his face, scalp, neck, and genitals.
Make him firmly erect by teasing his manhood with your tongue and lips. Each
touch should be light and teasing. Now, straddle him face to face, with your
weight on your knees, and guide him into you. As you continue to touch and
caress each other, tighten your vaginal muscles around his penis. This should
be the only movement in this area. Continue tightening these muscles in a
rhythmic way while you kiss and caress each other. Contemplate the spiritual
union of your bodies and souls. (With a little practice, you may be able to
bring you both to orgasm this way.)
Your interview indicates that all you want tonight is a good-night kiss
and sleep. However, come the morning. . . Set the alarm a few minutes early.
Then wake each other with kisses. Enjoy each other simply and quickly. The
extra adrenaline can make your day!
When you're married to or living with someone, sex is always within reach.
Which makes us take it for granted. Change that. Create the tension of
abstinence, the excitement of anticipation. Deliberately abstain from sex for
two weeks. At the end of that period, plan a quiet evening at home and make
love all night. The French say it's tres magnifique!
A different position can be fun and extra sexy. If you haven't tried this
one, you're in for a treat.
Instructions to her: When your lover is hard, straddle him, facing his
feet, and ease him into you. Caress his testicles
and enjoy the different sensations as you ride him.
Instructions to him: Caress and lightly pinch her buttocks as she rides
you. Lubricate a finger and gently insert it in
her anus. (be very gentle with this spot.) Enjoy the
sensations . . . and the view.
It may have been a long hard day, but a tingling shower will invigorate
you. Take one together. Soap each other thoroughly, lovingly. Wash each
other's hair. When you have toweled each other off, take turns giving the
other a powder rub. Sprinkle baby powder on your lover and lightly smooth it
into the skin with a powder puff. Make love on fresh linens.
Light several candles so that the bedroom glows with soft light. Stand
nude in front of a full-length mirror and rub oil into each other's skin.
Watch the color and texture of your skin in the flickering candlelight. Begin
to kiss and touch in earnest now as the passion builds. Continue to watch
yourselves in the mirror as you make love.
Treat your lady to a rendezvous at a hotel this weekend. Make reservations
at one of your city's best hotels. (Many have special weekend packages for
couples.) Check in on Friday night and spend the entire weekend in the hotel
. . . dining, dancing, making love. Swim at the hotel pool. Have drinks in
the cocktail lounge. Dine in its fanciest restaurant. If the hotel has
entertainment, be sure and catch the show. Have breakfast served in your
room at least one day. And, make love at every opportunity (there should be
plenty!) Return home Sunday night completely satiated and relaxed.
Make love on the dining room table. Start with her on top, then switch.
The cool surface on your back and buttocks will give you interesting new
Rent a Bogart/Bacall movie. Pop some popcorn. Put on robes or pajamas
and curl up in bed to watch a classic. Have a box of tissues at hand if the
movie happens to be Casablanca!
Take a hot shower together. Soap each other thoroughly and wash each
other's hair. Now rinse off all the soap. With the shower still running, she
takes him in her mouth and performs fellatio until he is hard. Make love
standing under the running water. She can wrap her legs around his waist, or
you can do it standing up, depending on each other's height and weight.
Wait for a warm summer evening when it is just misting rain. Take an air
mattress to the backyard (assuming you have a high fence for privacy) and
seduce your lover in the rain.
Get a deck of cards and play poker. With each hand the loser must take off
one piece of clothing and perform some minor sexual act of the winner's choice.
The first to lose all must do exactly as the winner orders!
Wherever you live, there is probably a romantic country inn within driving
distance. (Refer to Country Inns of America by Peter Andrew for a description
of the best country inns in the U.S.) Plan a week or a weekend trip to one of
them. Explore the town and countryside; dine at the Inn's romantic
restaurant, and enjoy the rest and relaxation that only the country can give!
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